James ~
Whether I'm old or not, Crone or not, lonely or not, fat or not ~ all irrelevant. None of these factors will create a personally-threatening [emotional response] atmosphere for newcomers or people already here. The specific issues that were being addressed with regard to you, however, will. Those issues were addressed only in response to particular things you said.....not broad-sweeping generalizations or accusations.
It is notable that you have side-stepped any/all personal responsibility or expression of concern regarding any of the above and, instead, reverted to beating a dead horse. To claim having an "audience," as you do both here and in the chatroom, gives the impression that first, you have delusions of grandeur. Though some people may read and like what I've written; or read and
dislike what I've written ~ I would never claim to have an "audience" unless people exchanged their hard-earned money or came to a particular place in order to see/hear/read me, with that specific intent in mind. It also gives the impression that what you say is for the benefit of some form of applause from others, rather than any heartfelt expression of your own, regardless of any anticipated response. You seem to consider yourself another Don Rickles. There is definitely a type of person who enjoys this type of humour, I just don't happen to be one of them. I will admit that there are bound to be some of those here....simply the law of averages.
I have no idea why you and your following have such trouble understanding my postings. I have no idea why people would gravitate to you to advise you of their discontinuing posting.....as though yours are of preferred format and content. Or, perhaps, you are the unofficial president of the Anti-Lizzytysh League. Either that, or they have come here, recruited from other sites, or of the mentality of the other sites, which condone and encourage postings fairly limited to bashing others. For you to feel that yours [in particular] are preferable to mine; and for those deeming to contact you, to feel that yours [in particular] are preferable to mine, truly baffles me
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On the other hand, I have
also been contacted privately ~ as well as publicly, in the chatroom ~ to be encouraged to "just continue being yourself." In fact, you were in the chatroom, as well, on one such occasion. However, I would never deem such contacts to be "part of my audience."
I have more to continue with, but no time available at the moment.
~ Elizabeth
I put my hand up to admit puerile response. 
Parry on if you must but I would like to depart this topic with a post script from James Taylor; a singer/songwriter dear to my heart. 
