I like the logic of this too,
It is an interesting thought you (and Lizzy) have there. And maybe you are on the right track? !I had a thought a bit ago (part of that BoM - bivouac business) that seemed to me like when we're alive, our survival compells us to compete with each other. That competition drives us in opposite direction from love and generosity. When we're dead, we don't have to survive any more, so there's less to get in the way of love.
There is a technical difficulty though:Taking this to an extreme allowed me the thought that when I die, I'll know all those crazy things I want to know
If un-differentiated unity is true to form, then the argument goes that there would be no "time" and "no space" and therefore no place for thought to occur.
It's a tricky one, if you are a rational person.
Sometimes it is best to be irrational.Or head for some place other than unity for awhile until you have had enough of that perspective.
My guess is that you want to go some place in-between this world and Unity! Get out the map and keep looking and let us know where you end up.

Thanks for the interesting thoughts.
Matj