Linda,
"Metta," is a great name for a dog. I probably should resist the
temptation to say that some would also find "Leonardcohen" to be
a purrfect name for a cat. I hope bad puns aren't a capital offense
around here.
You bring up "coincidences," sometimes these rise above laws of
chance to the level of synchronicities. Maybe your cousin's dog,
being called "Metta" is coincidental or maybe not. Hopefully, it's
synchronous to much "loving kindness" (as the word is often
translated) flowing into and through all of our lives.
It's good, I think, to connect with "life and its consequences," though
it's probably fair to say that many people are disconnected to it.
I don't disagree with you about "some real thought" being necessary
to help us deal with the "tragic-comic lives we lead." Most of the
best solutions we come up with, though, I find, are from the level of
stillness and aren't intellectually based. I've a feeling you might
agree.