Lie beside me baby that's an order!
Lie beside me baby that's an order!
I don't move - no walks, no anything except driving my mum to the shops twice a week where I will stay in the car - until she contacts me. I lived like that for 18 years, it will be easy to replicate. If she doesn't contact me by June 7, the trip to America is cancelled, too. Then, by all means, you run your little world. And never ever forget to thank Jackie for her gutlessness. For a Woman's gutlessness.
'In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer' - Albert Camus
Re: Lie beside me baby that's an order!
I said what I wanted to say, all the best to you in your journeys.
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Adam, this woman may be the love of your life but you may no longer be hers. In this last while you've taken huge steps - you've traveled, you seem to be becoming stronger, moving through anxiety and your agoraphobia. People may have supported you, but really you're the one who did that and only you can choose to keep moving or to stop.
Continuing to call or pursue someone who has made herself clear about not wanting that, does not seem like love to me, it seems like the type of thing that would cause fear and concern to her family and to her.
I'm not suggesting that you're not a peaceful man (I believe you to be), but the feeling of 'being hunted' can make somebody feel like 'potential prey'. (one woman's take)
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No, it will be your choice, it will be your decision - it is your struggle, not hers. If you choose not to go out, that is you choosing, not her.Boss wrote:
I don't move - no walks, no anything except driving my mum to the shops twice a week where I will stay in the car - until she contacts me. I lived like that for 18 years, it will be easy to replicate. If she doesn't contact me by June 7, the trip to America is cancelled, too. Then, by all means, you run your little world. And never ever forget to thank Jackie for her gutlessness. For a Woman's gutlessness.
Adam, this woman may be the love of your life but you may no longer be hers. In this last while you've taken huge steps - you've traveled, you seem to be becoming stronger, moving through anxiety and your agoraphobia. People may have supported you, but really you're the one who did that and only you can choose to keep moving or to stop.
Continuing to call or pursue someone who has made herself clear about not wanting that, does not seem like love to me, it seems like the type of thing that would cause fear and concern to her family and to her.
I'm not suggesting that you're not a peaceful man (I believe you to be), but the feeling of 'being hunted' can make somebody feel like 'potential prey'. (one woman's take)
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Re: Lie beside me baby that's an order!
<yawn>
You don't know who I am, Catie. You have no idea.
You don't know who I am, Catie. You have no idea.
'In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer' - Albert Camus
Re: Lie beside me baby that's an order!
6 months Israel till touchdown in Tel Aviv - the 1st of Dan.
Exactly 6 months!
Exactly 6 months!
'In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer' - Albert Camus
Re: Lie beside me baby that's an order!
Good luck in your abysmal non-belief, lady.Cate wrote:I said what I wanted to say, all the best to you in your journeys.
Anyway, why are you on a Leonard Cohen forum when you don't believe? He does.
And why did you erase your post? Isn't that admitting your hopeless atheism is unfounded?
Or is it you are petrified Man will again lead? Just hate the thought of it, don't ya'?
Womyn, there is a very special place for you; you mystery, you bearer of life. And I'm afraid Catie, you are a billion trillion miles from that. You, girlie, are lost.
All the best to you in your journey to blandness.
'In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer' - Albert Camus
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I'll put the post back if you want, I felt like I was intruding. It's kinda funny your commenting on me for taking down posts.Good luck in your abysmal non-belief, lady.
Anyway, why are you on a Leonard Cohen forum when you don't believe? He does.
And why did you erase your post? Isn't that admitting your hopeless atheism is unfounded?
Or is it you are petrified Man will again lead? Just hate the thought of it, don't ya'?
Womyn, there is a very special place for you; you mystery, you bearer of life. And I'm afraid Catie, you are a billion trillion miles from that. You, girlie, are lost.
All the best to you in your journey to blandness.
goodbye adam
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Put it back on my orders!
Goodbye little Girl
Goodbye little Girl
'In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer' - Albert Camus