Excellent tie-in, Sue.....as a matter of fact, here's a quote from Leonard that substantiates much of what you've just said ~ well, I thought I was going to go straight to it. Wrong.

However, it does exist, it's out there, I will come across it, and I will bring it to you verbatim. Meanwhile, the jist of it is his analogy of his time on Mt. Baldy being like stones in a jar, through their ongoing, close proximity and contact, being rubbed smooth and polished. He's never been much of a materialist, yet "forced" toward even less up there, I suspect that he enjoyed that state "of nothingness" even more.
It's funny, because the relative isolation, that comes with our own front door, has a surprizing number of drawbacks....that we pay more to be privy, to.

The alienation between people has driven housing contractors to design entire neighbourhoods in the old-fashioned sense of that, where people becoming ongoing parts of each others' daily lives. Now, people are paying even
higher prices to regain what they've lost

. It's one of the reasons I loved living in the Keys so much, as the small, space-limited, island structure forced much overlapping; and seeing, talking with, and getting together with people you knew didn't require calendars and appointments. It flowed very naturally, with numerous contacts daily. Excellent community-support system. It also facilitated meeting new people, through already-existing friends.
Yes, amazing how we "grow up," isn't it? Now, if we could just feng-shui it, we wouldn't even need to concern ourselves with the storage. I'm working that direction, "but it ain't easy".....much tenacity and self-dialogue required.
I love your last sentence.
~Lizzytysh