I think that people can expand their notions and perceptions of what is beautiful and fascinating, if they are so inclined, perhaps by learning more about the things/creatures/people that cause them to recoil, by looking at them more closely, and becoming aware of their amazing qualities, instead of just seeing the negative aspects. Eventually, appearances that may once have struck a person as unnerving or ugly or scary or otherwise unpleasant can sometimes be seen in a completely new and positive light, giving a person a whole new perspective, one that is filled with wonder and awe and joy and compassion.
Still on the topic of spiders, check out these little beauties: male peacock spiders who live in Australia. They are incredibly tiny, ranging in size from about 2 mm to 5 mm in length (you can see a medium sized one in the third photo, beside somebody's index fingernail), and, as you can also see, they are marvellously colourful! I have included a link below to a website featuring photos of many different peacock spiders, and I highly recommend checking it out -- the variety of patterns and colours on their bodies is remarkable -- each one a little work of art! I've also included a link to a fun video of some of the males doing their mating dances -- absolutely fabulous little critters! Enjoy!
https://www.peacockspider.org/
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HPh_Gi7PCqs
