I'm wondering if you did what I've sometimes done in answering postings. I read and am prompted to answer right then, without reading any further [sometimes not even noticing that there is anything further], as my thoughts are so fresh at that point... and then I later catch up and realize that there was more.
This is in regard to your comments about mine to Joe. I agree with what you've said. As soon as I was able to return to a computer [11:44 PM GMT], I commented more to Joe with this:
I seriously didn't mean go so gung-ho with it when I commented; and, maybe, this still doesn't make the difference with you as to how I responded to Joe. One great thing, however, is that I'm confident that Joe understands where/how my discomfort was and will not be deterred at all with future postings because of itDear Joe ~ I keep wanting to rephrase my comment to you [but only just now got back to my computer]. I think it's the word "gratuitous" that concerns me... maybe "a throwaway comment" would work better? Maybe not. My point is that I don't want to seem to be ridiculing you in the process, either... so, if we can smidgeon a little to the left... and then smidgeon a little to the right... I think we may have it closer to precise. I'm just not sure what the best word[s] would be ... and now I'm exhausted, so can't spend more time trying to figure it out; however, I'm trying to phrase my questioning in the kindliest of my confusion.
May you and Anne travel and arrive safely!!!


Now, to tease you a bit:
Did you, perchance, mean to say "with," instead of "for"?This is such a beautiful paragraph that I think that everyone should memorize it. Then they can use it over and over again and subsitute Jack for any name they wish.
Finally... it's riddle time:
Without reading too much or too little; or too little or too much; into what you've said here [not even sure where to put the emphasis first on those two choices]... Yes, I would say you're probably right... but I could be wrong. I wish I could say I was being glib just there, as that would suggest absolutely no confusion, whatsoeverWithout going too far I think that what I wrote will make you think that I am on to something that you feel is very meaningful to you personally and for the most part I think that for everyone else it will sound like nonsense. For your part am I right?

~ Lizzy