hello sereneava. good of you to join us, and thank you for taking the time to write. i have no idea what is right or wrong either, and i am very afraid of encouraging a "four in the morning, the end of december" atmosphere. with words i feel i am more clumsy than careful. i relinquished my british citizenship a long time ago, and norwegian has been my everyday language for the greater part of my life. a poor excuse, but the only one i have. yes, i have thought about leonard's loved ones, and try as best i can to weigh all words so as not to cause more sorrow than they already have gone through - should they read my notes. i take solace in knowing that his 'children' are adults, that several weeks have now passed, and that one shouldn't really need permission to ask a question. in a way they are lucky; they know what happened, can begin the recovery process - whereas those who know nothing cannot. peace to you too, sereneava.sereneava wrote:Thank you Vicomte, Cindee, Violet and especially Geoffrey for the way you are talking about this difficult subject. I think it is natural that these questions are wondered about. I have no idea what is right or wrong in this situation. I am grateful Geoffrey that you can express your questions and concerns so carefully and with regard for Leonard's loved ones. I don't know how to conclude this except to say peace to all.
while writing, i would like to thank the lady called 'violet' for a superb message written from a "snow-covered mountain". she prioritised contributing to this thread above preparing a christmas day dinner - and that is something i will remember for a long time
