Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2005 3:10 am
T -
You are right in that it is wonderful to have good friends, but it's always nice to be friends with our own self. Enjoy our own company. Spend time with ourselves without feeling lonely. I like my time alone, I guess because I'm alone when I choose to be. Then, when I am with friends, I appreciate them all the more.
Sometimes, the best time for me is turning off the phone, computer, radio and TV, having the house to myself and just putter about, read, whatever. That is peace and quiet, not lonliness.
If your lack of a girlfriend right now is making you 'sad', I think the time will probably come when that rights itself. Life has a way of taking care of itself. In its own time, of course.
Cheers,
Linda.
You are right in that it is wonderful to have good friends, but it's always nice to be friends with our own self. Enjoy our own company. Spend time with ourselves without feeling lonely. I like my time alone, I guess because I'm alone when I choose to be. Then, when I am with friends, I appreciate them all the more.
Sometimes, the best time for me is turning off the phone, computer, radio and TV, having the house to myself and just putter about, read, whatever. That is peace and quiet, not lonliness.
If your lack of a girlfriend right now is making you 'sad', I think the time will probably come when that rights itself. Life has a way of taking care of itself. In its own time, of course.
Cheers,
Linda.