Lizzy, that story really is sad. To think that poor girl died from something as seemingly benign as a peanut, and in something as loving as a kiss. That is a tragic story.
But, Lizzy, oh, Lizzy, you don't get this. What has that to do with the line, "I want to die with you Wendy on the streets tonight in an everlasting kiss?" Would you bring this story up if we were discussing one of Leonard's songs where death is mentioned? The Boss is not at all a brilliant poet like Leonard is, he only writes spectacular songs. That is why you take him less seriously, but I cannot let this one go.
None of us want to wait to die
alone. We all hope to die before that, and we hope to 'die' in love. All the best songs speak about that lifetime search for a love that will release him us from our loneliness: "'Cause baby I'm just a scared and lonely rider/But I gotta find out how it feels/I want to know if love is wild/girl I want to know if love is real."
Spiritual union is the imperative of life: "I'll love you with all the madness in my soul." We seek a mutual union of ecstasy that is beyond words. Here we hope to reign for eternity, soaring together (i.e. in an everlasting kiss). I know you already know this, yet still you mock

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It is, I think, the fact of dying on the streets that leads you to fail to take this line seriously. But the street is crucial. Our egos have to die so that our souls are free to truly merge with the other. It is easiest for this to happen when we are close to death. In Born To Run, the form of intoxication (threat of death) he and Wendy will use to elude their egos is the danger and excitement of riding a motorbike - or is it a car - wildly through the streets. Here there is a slight threat of death inherent in the activity (plus, the music itself is exciting and intoxicating). Others use drink or drugs or or intense exercise or worship or simply love itself. Any of these things can get you high. You have to get stoned, smashed, hammered (all demolition metaphors) to 'kill' the ego and set the soul free. You are then free to join with your love and die together.
In reality of course, we never quite find that beautiful death, or, if we do, we find ourselves returning to earth afterwards. So, we are forever driven to keep trying for that moment. But, till then, tramps like us, baby we were born to run.
Now, what is it you were saying about peanuts?
Love,
Diane
